The Midlife Nurse

Let’s talk about men. My online experiences specifically. As I window shop through the many choices on dating apps and see what’s on offer in the hope of finding that elusive love thing that people claim to feel (actually a date and a snog would suffice right now) I find myself just exasperated. I see their photos, many of them are overweight and ageing not so gracefully, or have photos with their ex scribbled out and even worse – photos with their kids or grandchildren at the forefront! I mean seriously?? Why on Earth would you advertise your offspring? Am I dating them too? Do they come along on the first date to see if they approve? Or should I date the guy because his 12 year old is cute??? And then there’s consent – did they get consent to plaster their childrens faces all over random dating sites? It baffles me. Truly it does. Anyway today I checked out a few profiles. Three out of four wanted no drama. No baggage. They also commented on why women match then don’t bother messaging. Here’s a thought guys …… maybe they swiped right instead of left BY MISTAKE . The clues are there surely? And pouting. Why they chuffing heck are 50+ year old men trout pouting? Stunned.
Anyway I’ve posted my profile photos here to show you and if you want to comment on where I’m going wrong – you’d be doing me a favour!!! Clearly I’ve got a big problem as I’m still single ….. 😂😂

I will come back to this topic – I have yet to introduce to you the “types” I’ve already dated …..